Refocusing, Recalibrating, and Resetting for August
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I hope this finds you well as we officially move into a brand new month together.
August.
Wow, this time of year usually marks something for me, and maybe you experience this too…even though it’s definitely still hot, there’s a shift that comes with hitting this month on the calendar.
A shift in energy.
A shift in focus.
A shift in readiness.
A shift in knowing that we’re moving back into a time of getting back to school, cooler weather is on the horizon for those of us in the Northern Hemisphere, and an opportunity to get some things we have on our list front and center before we wrap up the last bit of the year.
It’s like being on the starting line waiting for the go signal to hit the ground running on this last bit of the year.
For me, even though I’m no longer a student, this time of year still stirs and nurtures these experiences for me and I still really love it.
This year, it feels like there’s a bit or a record scratch happening in the background of all of this energy…very loudly I must admit but still in the background.
Can you hear it too?
We may be experiencing similar record scratches or they may be different but we’re collectively hearing this happening and feeling all the feels about it too. We’re collectively having this experience together from our own homes all over the planet.
Maybe your record scratch is about whether or not you’ll still be working from home for the remainder of the year.
Maybe it’s about scrambling to find a way that’s right for you and your family to support your child’s education this back to school season.
Maybe you’re a teacher and you won’t be able to go back to in person classes this fall and you’re grieving being with your students.
Maybe it means more important dates in your life where you have to isolate, social distance, and experience separation from people and experiences which are important for you.
Maybe it’s all the things, and none of the things especially that makes it hard…the I can’t quite put my finger on it feeling.
Maybe you’ve baked all the sourdough you can handle, shared it safely with neighbors, and now don’t really know what to do.
Maybe you got more than 1 BINGO on the lockdown scoreboard you found on the inter-webs and feel you’ve been really upbeat about everything and now you’re burned out and don’t want to play anymore. (that’s okay by the way…totally natural.)
No matter where you’re at with all of this, you’re not alone.
Turning the corner on how we move toward the end of the year with a lot of these issues still part of our day to day can feel heavy, overwhelming, and downright dismal.
I’ve had people tell me that they don’t want to be a Debbie Downer but that they’re really sad and having a hard time because this has been going on longer than they expected.
I’ve had people tell me that they’ve lost momentum, feel disconnected, and that they’re experiencing sadness.
Many people tell me that they feel guilty for feeling this way because they feel grateful for so many other things that they have in their life.
Maybe this resonates for you too.
The truth is that this situation, the things that are happening directly to you within your world and the things happening in the larger outside world around you are impactful, real, and take a toll on you.
They take a toll on all of us.
There is no part of you that is wrong for feeling your feelings.
It’s healthy to feel your full spectrum of emotions, and to allow them to move through you in constructive ways.
You don’t need to hold back or be embarrassed for feeling the way you feel, even if you have happy things happening in your life too. You can be grateful, joyful, and appreciate and still have a hard day or hard moments throughout the day.
As we all lean into this big left turn that is August, let’s take a big deep breath in through our noses, and hold it at the top of the breath, and then exhale for a big clearing. Good….feel free to repeat if you need to.
The truth is that we’re going through a time of deep healing, clearing, and yes…upheaval too.
It looks like we are scheduled for some more bumps ahead; however, that doesn’t mean we can’t also allow this time to be a marker for us.
Maybe your marker will be:
Taking more time for rest
Slowing down a bit
Taking some things off of your list
Asking for help and allowing yourself to Receive it once it’s offered
Choosing 1 thing that’s important to you on a personal level to focus on as we lean into the rest of the year
Acknowledging how you’re doing and letting yourself be where you’re at…also remember to give yourself gold stars on your chart for your wins. (wins are really important no matter how many turns around the sun you’ve made.)
Scheduling support services where you could use it, so you don’t feel like you’re trying to hold everyone and everything up all by yourself all the time.
Just in case no one has told you this in a while, please let me be the person to tell you that you’re doing a really great job.
I can see you.
I see all the effort that you’re making and all the time you put in to keep things going for yourself and others.
You’re doing a really great job!
Thank you so much for all you do. Please make sure you take some time to be as good to yourself as you are to everyone in your world.
You are appreciated.
You are worthy.
You are valuable.
You are loveable.
You are enough.
You are enough.
You are enough.
With all my love and gratitude, I’m sending you so much support from my teeny corner of the world to you. I’m wishing you a healthy, happy, August…one with things to look forward to that feel good to you.
Love,
Kristy~xoxo
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